But how do I focus on me. I must protect myself. I need to get away from her. She is clearly and blatantly cheating on me. I cannot live this life and she does not want to go.

I can move out with my Bro for a month like I suggested but I don't need a new perspective. My eyes are wide open. Remember too that I am not working on my M anymore, or a R, I am only focusing on what I want.

And what I want is to put the house on my name to protect myself financially. I want to experience my life without her in it for at least a year, cos I've never been alone before.

These decisions are made without emotions. What are my other options when I'm already focusing on me.


Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.