W took the day off to meet a guy for a free consultation regarding finances. She also took S16 to get his license. I had my second counseling session which was okay. The counsellor seemed shocked at the events and I think she learned as much from me as I her. Lost it a few times but regained composure and set up third meeting in 3 weeks. Getting home before them, S14 said that Mom was taking a bunch of stuff. A lamp and small table, all her summer clothes and more bathroom stuff and pictures. I took a quick peek in her office and saw this 3 page document. Does this mean she filed and I will get served and this is her copy, or is this something she will hand to me and it's not filled out?: [IMG]http://i67.tinypic.com/24fg2sw.jpg[/IMG] When they came back it was STHT and W and I ate the meal she prepared and not much was said other than about the house and working in the deal that it will be continent I refinance in 2 years to get her name off the mortgage. She left within 30 mins before 6pm and never mentioned the documents. I'm not expecting her back? She did mention yesterday how do I want to be served? As an embarrassment at work or other? Other of course (but I wouldn't be embarrassed).
I'm just numb, relieved, sad, disappointed, angry, shocked if this is indeed it and in 60 days later its over. I plan to stand and continue on as I have been if this is indeed the fate she decided until D day.
M49 W48 Married 25 years S14 & S16 in house. S21 & S23 together in apt.
BD#1 11/09 EA & PA, Separated 2/10, Reconciled 9/10 BD#2 4/16 EA & PA, Separated 4/16