Hi Bhuda, we seem to be in a similar situation. 2 months ago my W wouldn't even look at me or even be near me. Now we are conversing, shes looking at me when we talk and im getting kisses on the cheek that are getting warmer and warmer. A month ago she wouldn't even give me a peck on the cheek and jerks away if i accidentally brush up against her.
While things seem to be getting warmer now I am not pushing for more cause like you i dont want to "pressure" her but from time to time i remind her im her husband and a man.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.