Kyle get yourself prepared, I too was 100% sure there wasn't OM, and there was. I will say this, if you find evidence, DO NOT confront her right away, come here and get advice before you fly off the handle, it will help you in long run.

Also, her booking a vacation alone seems out of place to me, especially since you both are living in parents house.. I hope I'm wrong, just don't want you to walk blindly, I found out only a few weeks after it started, and I think that is a big reason We are as far along in recovery as we are. Not that we are recovered, but at least OM was taken out of picture quickly.

Last edited by Cadet; 05/25/16 06:13 PM.
M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized