Hi everyone I'm very much looking for any help/advice I can get. Let me tell you a big about my situation.
I have been with my wife for 8 years (I'm 29, she's 30), married for 2 and we have 2 beautiful daughters together. We hardly ever argue, we never fight and have always enjoyed being in each other's company. Over the past 4-5 months the stresses of day to day life has really caught up with us, financially we've been struggling, childcare has been an issue, both working full time so have no time for the kids and can't seem to escape our debts.
Around 2 months ago she impulsively decided we were moving in with the in-laws to get rid of our debts and save for a mortgage which fell through. She then decided we were moving to Australia and threw herself into that head first which again fell through.
Out of the blue 5 weeks ago she woke me up and dropped the bomb shell, she told me she wasn't happy and needed some space to work out the cause so I packed some things and moved to my parents. A week and a half later I got the phone call saying that she believes it's me and that she "loves me but not in love with me". Since then I have given her space and tried not to beg and plead with her, yes I've spoken to her a couple of times to get some answers but I seem to get a wishy washy, no real content response. I spoke with her tonight regarding the kids and it was like nothing has happened, we spoke like we always had done before, even sharing jokes.
Some things I will point out im 100% certain it is not anyone else, she has mentioned that she is booking a trip at the beginning of July to go away somewhere for a few days as she needs to get away from it all and be on her own, a week before she asked me to leave she was gushing to her friends about how much she loves me and the morning she asked me to leave she sent me some private photos (which isn't uncommon).
I literally have no idea what to do and whether I've lost her forever. Please give me some guidance!!
