He was pursuing me this morning. Texts about how beautiful I am, and that he isn't used to me not responding, etc. he doesn't like that he's lost his friend, etc.
I just said "Break up with OW and we can be friends"
Wrong thing to say? Whenever I am this cool it seems to bring him on, and I was definitely the pursuing, pleading, one before. I was going to go full NC, but I think it will do more damage. I hate not knowing if I'm making things better or worse.