I don't want to quit DBing but I need to look out for my kids first and foremost. Still planning on keeping up with the kindness but wow, it's sure hard sometimes. Is every other week really hard on kids? I haven't found anything on it searching and I think it is her lawyer's input. IDT it is but I'm questioning myself since I'm feeling like I'm losing it. Should I just agree to the 2 weeks? I don't want to fight a battle I can't win with her but I have legitimate concerns as I mentioned above. I'm afraid if I try to stick to every other week she will turn nasty and try to take my time away, then I'll be waiting on the mercy of the court. It's how her family operates and how she's turned.
Ok ... standing up for your rights as a father is not tossing the towel in and putting DBing on hold. Thing is ... as men, you can not be a doormat, its unattractive regardless if she is in MLC or not .... as a father allowing MLC crazy to take your kids 7 hours away is even more madness. Get with a lawyer and see what YOUR rights are ... your MLCW thinks this game should follow her rules, do not be afraid to stand up for yourself, put your foot down and say no.... sure she will spin/spew and monster as the teenager was just told No by her authority figure .. tough-chit. No way would I have ever allowed my Son out of county/State ... pretty sure they need consent to do that ... consult with a lawyer now, not later.
