Yes I have and he has been very helpful. I am due to call him again. I admit it's been a while since I read the DR book. It's difficult finding the time to read the book in private.

I am coping with my present sitch. I find myself wanting to grab my wife, hug her, kiss her and see what happens but I know it would not work in my favour and be a step backwards with regard to my DBing efforts to date.

Still no signs from my wife that my efforts are working but no signs that it isn't either which in my view is something I can feel positive about. I still,have time and I won't quit.

Don't count the days, make the days count.
Mohammad Ali