What Should I be doing 3

[Coconut]

CBT, I did read your first response, and now your second.. I know what you are saying, but it's easy to know, hard to do...

btw, I am not frustrated from lack of ML, I don't expect to jump back to that, it's just having expectations that I can't get past.. but that's my issue, not hers.

Sandi, your always welcome to respond, I was just saying that I knew what concerns there are with what I was accepting, and that I accepted those possibilities when I backed off my NC boundary. Although I must admit is not an easy thing to trust her with him there, but she is being transparent.

Anyway, I will speak with my W later, I will acknowledge her efforts and will tell her that my request was not carefully thought out and I am no longer asking that she move out of MBR.