Unbelievable! I e-mailed the therapist that we wish to stop the sessions & he replied to us: "feel free to work on your own unhapiness as it is far more secure and comfortable than an unstable happiness. Once you'll want to stop repeating the same scripts I'll be glad to help." I'm really happy we stopped with this one!
After almost a month being fine, today I'm quite down, wishing my husband was living at home. He e-mailed me today to tell me he'll be promoted. That he just learnt about it. Plus he mentioned some other change at work. While I'm very happy he wanted to share it with me, & as it seems, as soon as he learnt about it, it also made me very sad that he won't be home tonight so we can talk more about it just like in good old times. I congratulated him & told him I was very happy for him. He never replied. Most likely celebrating with someone else.
It's so difficult to interact with him! I admire all of you that you can do this for years & are still so strong! Ok, technically my h's crisis last several years already but at least he was home & we had more-less normal life until it got to where we are now. It's hard as I'm a planner & sure, I can make plans w/o him but I just don't want to... I know I should be happy as I have many positive things in my life but... Well, family is really everything to me & family for me is me, him & our sons.
