We let both boys teachers know as well. Same reaction, you could tell they were shocked. H is president of the parent advisory council so he puts on a good face in public.
One of the teachers did alert us to some small issues with younger S. Said he was restless and lacking focus. I explained, of course we all are. It's going to take time to get into a new routine. We talked to S and according to teacher there have been no more issues.
So smart move alerting the school. Good job keeping focus on kids.
Me:43 H: 42 Married:17 years S-12, S-10 BD:-10/16/15, OW, also married, getting D to be together with H. Separated, mediation done, just need to file for divorce
