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Re: Focus on the work, not the when Melo #2680539 05/25/16 09:17 AM
Joined: Feb 2016 Posts: 563 Ontario B bigybiz Member
bigybiz Member B Joined: Feb 2016 Posts: 563 Ontario	Melo: You are a brave man. The boundary thing sounds easy but it's not, especially when you are in the same house. Maybe start with just one area/topic. Chances are you will find more success in that. You may want to consider not giving her cash. But paying the bill for her. It is more work for you - but it may help with the boundary and give you a little more power. If you give her cash she can buy what she wants not what she asked you for. Just an idea. M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017

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Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/07/16 08:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 09:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/07/16 04:30 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 04:44 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/07/16 09:05 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/08/16 01:10 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/08/16 01:13 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/08/16 03:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/08/16 03:18 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/09/16 06:27 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/10/16 03:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/11/16 08:51 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/11/16 07:58 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/11/16 08:48 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/11/16 08:57 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/11/16 10:00 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/13/16 07:42 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/17/16 10:41 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/20/16 01:39 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/21/16 02:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/21/16 02:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/23/16 01:16 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 11:17 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/26/16 11:20 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 12:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	sandi2	04/26/16 12:39 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 01:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	J5K	04/26/16 01:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/26/16 02:20 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/27/16 08:06 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	04/27/16 08:05 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 09:52 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 09:59 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 10:01 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	CWOL	04/28/16 10:44 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/28/16 11:27 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	CWOL	04/28/16 11:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/29/16 02:51 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	04/29/16 04:47 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	04/29/16 06:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	04/29/16 10:53 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/01/16 01:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/01/16 06:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/02/16 08:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/06/16 08:12 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/07/16 06:35 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/11/16 05:43 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	05/11/16 06:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/11/16 07:31 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/11/16 07:47 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/13/16 04:28 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 03:47 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 09:52 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	AndrewP	05/16/16 10:07 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 11:23 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 11:26 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 11:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/16/16 01:40 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 03:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Ralph88	05/16/16 04:17 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/16/16 06:37 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Ralph88	05/16/16 07:23 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	vise82	05/17/16 06:46 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/17/16 10:33 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/17/16 08:10 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/17/16 08:21 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/18/16 06:35 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	05/18/16 07:52 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/19/16 07:12 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	collin	05/19/16 07:29 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 12:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 01:16 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 03:35 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/21/16 03:37 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	J5K	05/21/16 06:23 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/22/16 07:34 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/22/16 07:36 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	coffee_	05/22/16 08:09 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/23/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/24/16 11:26 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	05/25/16 09:17 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	05/25/16 11:19 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/01/16 08:48 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/02/16 03:17 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/16/16 01:31 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/17/16 02:59 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/27/16 08:02 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	06/27/16 08:38 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/28/16 07:14 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	MoveFrwd	06/28/16 08:21 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	06/28/16 09:00 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:03 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:11 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/02/16 09:15 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 09:40 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/02/16 09:59 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/02/16 10:55 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	SH_	07/03/16 11:03 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	bigybiz	07/06/16 09:09 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/08/16 01:18 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	job	07/08/16 01:22 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	ForGump	07/25/16 02:07 PM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Melo	07/26/16 04:50 AM
Re: Focus on the work, not the when	Buxom	07/25/16 01:44 PM

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