Hey, dood! Funny thing seeing this thread pop up! I actually post now in the mlc forum, so that was a surprise!
Yeah, I don'the know what he thinks. I've kinda distanced myself from my entire social group. I know I always enjoyed talking to him...really nice, hardworking guy...gone a lot, often out of town. Drinks a lot and sleeps a lot on weekends. Never saw him being really demonstrative around Bubbles. Great with his boys, helps coach their sports teams.
If you have read bluwaves thread there is talk of "nice guy syndrome". I know my H fits it to a T. I think he (Bubbles hubby) does, as well. I don't think he knows how often they were alone together.
Funny thing, though. My H is now spending more of his time with guys, including her H. I think me "apologizing" for my behavior made her realize how much she appeared to be having an affair? Or that she was caught, if anything did happen? Or that her behavior might have jeopardized her "perfect" family? Dunno. But the dynamic changed. Still is changing.
Anyway. My H seems to be finding his decisions are not making him happy, lately. He seems to suddenly be doing some harder thinking. Or not. I could be over analyzing. But I'm still moving forward. I can be flexible. It's all just "stuff" that's changing. It's the relationship part that hurts.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
