Quick update: H wants me to waive service..sign the decree that cuts child support by half. Has me picking the boys up. Oh and has me agreeing to stay in this county and only this county until he moves. Ummmm nope. So I countered asking for a full account of income. Some mandatory parenting classes. I am also asking the judge to order him not to have his guns around the boys. I was also told since he so nicely keeps displaying all the rifles he bought while i was struggling to pay the rent and all, I could ask for them in the divorce. Wouldn't that just boil him over