I certainly agree with the good people here that you should not post that letter on FB, no matter what! What do you hope to accomplish by posting it on FB? It would definitely make it harder for her to reconcile because of the public humiliation. When you are ready to forgive, will everyone else feel the same? Probably not. Post it here if you need to vent to get it out there, but nowhere else!
Sounds like your W and her OM are cake eating. The want to live in their fantasy worlds without any of the consequences. Boundaries are really important right now.
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