another thing with this whole she's not talking about anything and I'm not initiating it....
I told her to take whatever she wants, and she is. But we have 2 dogs, that I won't give up so easily. We both love them dearly. I'd hate to show up after her moving day to find out she took 1 or both without even asking me, under the premise that I said to take what she wants.
Initiating that talk though is counterproductive to the DB process, so I don't know which way to fall on this one.
(I do think that her condo place only allows for 1 dog, and she's been adamant since this started that we keep them together, as they are best of friends.)
