Vise
Just wanted to let you know i am here. I know it is hard, but you are doing great. Dont try to rationalize her actions right now.
I think you are handling things fine. Let her get angry. she will eventually realize she has brought this on and you are not going to be there for her. It has to happen as part of the process.

dont feel bad about being tired and not wanting to do things. get what you have to get done to move in and then the rest will get done eventually. remember your body is beyond stressed and the tired feeling is telling you to rest.

dont ignore it

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15