She's moving out in two weeks? I'd let the issue of the concert slide. What could you possibly gain by confronting her?
My b@lls. I'm sure it would do more bad than good, but I've always been a bit passive with her. If she wants space, that's fine. If she wants to run around with other guys, I won't be around as a plan B.
Does she see you as Plan B? I'm not remembering the details of your situation, but I would interpret moving out as a sign that she doesn't think you should have a say in her life unless you have a clear agreement that this is a separation for a limited time for the purpose of working on your marriage and you have agreed to ground rules.
If my H announced he was going to move out on X date (not as part of an agreed upon separation), I would assume I had no more say in his behavior outside the home unless it directly involved our kids.
Unless you have a separation agreement, I don't think saying something is "taking back" anything.
you're right. Its not my business. But it really irks me because she's not moving one way or the other. The only time she brings up D is if I do or say something she doesn't agree with. Almost like a threat. I know I need to be patient.
And no there has been zero R talk. I let it be known I want to work on things and have shut up since about it. (couple months now) She doesn't like talking about it, so nothing has been said. But she talks about things a bit down the line like we'll still be in contact. I plan to go dark as soon as she is gone. Kind of already am. I initiate zero contact at all really.
Guess this kind of triggered a bad day for me. I won't be saying anything to her.
