Thank you SH. You have helped me twice today. I listened to the talks you suggested to Pheobe earlier.Helped recenter me where I am going. I like much of your advice and work on yourself.

You seem to be doing good. At the very least you are learning and connecting hugely with your D.

I appreciate your support.

I wanted to look back to be sure I hadn't forgotten about an important action I intended doing. It is easy to get sidetracked; n this roller coaster! So yes it was looking back to move forward. I'm heading towards better things.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together