In fact being a nice guy is the exact opposite of being respectful and connecting to women.
It's a man putting his own needs first, it's the ultimate control and master technique. The anthisis of what a modern man should do.
It's being 'nice' to get what you want, it creates distance not connection.
'Nice' in this context is tongue in cheek, it's the opposite of nice. It's nasty mean selfish territory whilst presenting a 'nice' front. It's gaslighting and smoke and mirrors and highly manipulative behaviour. It's saying one thing and doing another, whilst grinning look at me I am so 'nice'.
It's highly codependent and unpleasant because it presents as 'nice'. Nice is pyrrhic in this. Most 'nice' guys and gals won't come to that conclusion about themselves until they have to.
Nice guys are toe rags with a sweet smile. And if you tell them they are a nice guy then they may project and rage at you.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
