Ralph, I imagine that different plans work for different folks.

That plan has been perfect for my d5. She knows exactly what is going on, planning as a parent is quite simple and minimizing the time away from either parent has maintained stability. No hot mess here after over 1 month.

Rotating weekends with 3 days with one parent turns it into almost a week away. Many of the LBH on this forum seem to struggle with their children away for so many days at a time. I imagine it depends on how much time parents want between having their kids with them. Heck, this was the only thing WAW and I could agree on the first time.

All this IMHO, but to each their own.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine