I mean, I guess I should take her being annoyed by me as a sign that she still feels SOMETHING. I would think if she was out, she wouldn't give a sh!t either way.
Ok, so I have a predicate here. W comes home from work and starts to get ready to go out. I ask nothing about what she is doing, only ask if she's coming home/works tmrw cuz we have to arrange the cars in the driveway.
Thru friends, I remember there is a concert tonight that she wanted to go to. Sure enough, in her calendar. So, my gut feels a bit funny for some reason and I'm learning to trust it. I dig a quick second, and sure enough, guy she had EA with is there at the same show. I have no idea if they went together, as they do share mutual friends. I did say tell the guy a while back that I'd be contacting his wife if he kept up with any shenanigans.
Do I confront her about this? She swore that there is nothing there. And I have been very distant, so I'm not even sure it's my business to ask.
I've been doing really well myself, but this voice inside is starting to panic/get a bit angry about this. That's why I'm here instead of trying to contact her. I am NOT a doormat. If she wants to play these games, do I shut up and deal with it and bleed a slow death and maybe let it work itself out or stand up and fight for what I believe? Again, she's said there is absolutely nothing physical, that they've had a connection cuz they were dating when his brother died. Idk what to think, I don't like looking for things like this, but when I have a hunch, it's usually right. Plz plz plz advice
bump for the morning crew, anyone have any ideas?? She didn't come home late, considering the venue is an hour 1/2 away. Really bugging me for some reason.
She's moving out in two weeks? I'd let the issue of the concert slide. What could you possibly gain by confronting her?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
She's moving out in two weeks? I'd let the issue of the concert slide. What could you possibly gain by confronting her?
My b@lls. I'm sure it would do more bad than good, but I've always been a bit passive with her. If she wants space, that's fine. If she wants to run around with other guys, I won't be around as a plan B.
