If it comes up that we need to figure out how to coparent, do I get to unload? "How do we do that in light of this...." And then lay out the OFP open to the page where she says I r@ped her through entire M, the fact that she was claiming the kids aren't safe with me in the OFP, her excessive spending, the suspicious activities that she has been up to including leaving the kids alone New Year's Eve, her leaving the kids on her weekend twice, her loser friends and all the crap the kids see/hear when around them, her greed in mediation, the money wasted on atty fees because of the OFP, what else? Think that will kick her off her high horse?
Or do I take the "nicey nice" approach? I'll talk to IC about it too.