betterm, For a newbie you're doing really well. Keep it up!
I think I've mentioned this before, and I'm not trying to convince myself, but I'm a real fast learner when something "takes over" me. And sadly, even though W was the one to bring up D, now I'm the one, after taking a long, hard, deep ...<stay with me here, dirty perv minds...>
...LOOK at my own problems, I've found more problems in the relationship related to HER issues, and if she's not willing to work on those (like she says she is not willing to do), then I'm honestly better off without her.
take it for what it's worth, and I know it's probably not the "right" way to look at it, but lifes short, I'm 34 years old, time to get on with it!
