Need some help from the DB community! Crunch Time!

[cbtdad]

I'm not taking the blame for her not wanting what she wants
She knows what she wants. She wants a husband who doesn't criticize her, control her, who trusts her, who doesn't verbally abuse her.
She has said this many times.
This is what I was waiting for from her
I got the reasoning and what needs to happen
When she is happy I'm actually happy and she does give me what I want
I'm man enough to admit that I screwed up
I'm man enough to realize that after I'm learning about control and my issues that I see where we are
Now if in another 4 weeks she isn't working her part of the cycle then yes
I will move forward and do what I have to do
But everything I'm seeing from her, her actions, are telling me that she wants the marriage and me, but is afraid I will hurt her again