Its all about her cbtdad, what about you? You can't take the blame for her not knowing what she wants.

Thats why Acc said that you need a fresh perspective and she needs one too. She is stuck in the past and so are you. You will need to start from 0 if you want to keep your W, if she wants to stay really.

I was considering moving out myself for that same POV, but after the wknd away I know that I am strong enough to see this through until I kick my WW out. I am not ready for D yet, but need to be strong enough to make that decision, if it comes to that.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.