Ok not very Christian of me but if your vengeful at all - you can smile at the fact that the OM may have it too - in my case I'm pretty sure he did as my W was sending him info on Urgent Care clinics.
That was a while back, now I'm actually praying both for my W and for the OM that they may both find their ways back to their M.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17