She is not a "DB-coach". She's actually a 'divorce coach' that my cousin met when he moved to PA. she neither pro, nor against, marriage/divorce, but really just looks out for the individual involved and will tailor to what seems right for the situation. In my case... after I told her my background, W's background, any patterns of the past, stories of her ex's, my ex's, family issues, etc... she said, "buckle up", "we've got a lot to prepare you for"... And then she showed me where I lost my balls.