Agree with pretty much all of that. I've done a little GAL, but can do more.
I thought I had the A stopped at one point until I found that she had a new hidden app to talk to him on recently. And I now think he was moving back here no matter what. It seems as though his dad was having cancer treatment in Houston and thats why he was there, and finished that a week or 2 ago.
I don't know what "by any means" consists of at this point. I do have kids, and the two I worry about is the 17yr old step daughter and my almost 12 year old son who are both on social media too. So posting something to get light on this might not be smart if they see it. What does that leave me as far as getting it ended now? Confront the jerk? Confront her again? Just completely detach?
I agree 100% ,I have 0% while he is around or talking to her. And even a very big chance a D would be ugly because of him. The little bastard sent her a mothers day card. If thats not sick in the head I don't know what is!
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16