Hey so I am continuing to move and set up my place. Mean while we still have to look after the kids.

W wants me to look after them after school because I am off work and i can work on my place all day.

I just dont get it, today she asked me to use my tools for house, her dad asked. Yesterday she asked to me to cut her lawn after I finished the MR house. I said she can walk the lawn mower over to her house to cut it when I am done.

She tells me I Real nice and gets mad.

I ignore and continue to move my life to the new place.

The night of the fire works at her court I did not go. I was busy at my place. Kids asked me to go. I just said it time for you t spend with just your mother.

I had to drop off one of the kids there and I almost threw up as there she was talking to neighbors as the party was starting.

I did not even get out of the van.

Now some how W gets me to make dinner before she gets home so that she can just leave to go to her house right after work. I dont mind as she made dinner last night.

So I will look after the kids till they go to bed, then I can continue to work on my place at night.

So much work to do for this move.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016