Weird Reaction

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I forgot to mention, prior to our hospital trip we had a talk.

She wanted me to go the extra mile and find a way to come home early from work to watch our youngest daughter. she had a meeting to go to but could not tell me what the meeting is for.

I said no and kept leaving the room she would call me back and ask again, woundering why I could not just oblige her. I said I can't help her and she was on her own. I went upstairs she blocked the doorway to our bedroom to continue the conversation.

Eventually the conversation turned to her actions. I said I don't understand, if you want to be single, why are you here? She said where would she go (mind you weeks ago she made a whole big to do about the fact that she talked with her sister and had a place to stay should I make her leave and that I should not tell her mom if I know what is best for me. FYI Mom is a SOLID Christian who plays no games and pulls no punches. She calls a sin a sin and would MAKE my wife apologize and end the affair.)

She saw I did not falter as in the past and said she is looking for a job (stall tactic).

I keep reading Sandi2's posts and think I will pull back but put her bed things outside tonight. We have a joint account which is all of my money (she does not work) I will cancel direct deposit and pull out the balance once a check I wrote clears.

When she asks I will tell her that I the family finances are not for the single lady.