Life 2.0

[Painter]

Juju, I hear you and I could have posted the same.
I agree with much of what you say.

There are a couple of reasons why I'm working to get the truth out of WH, but I don't want to post too much about that here. But yes, I'm not going to keep calling him or talking to him much, it's not good for me. And you're right, I'm trying to get him to comfort me and he's the perpetrator. I said as much to him when I was there and found out about the A a little over a year ago. I remember looking at him and saying, I want you to hug me and make it all go away but you're the one who is doing it so you can't comfort me. And then I cried harder than I can remember ever for most of the night, alone in my bedroom.

There may not be anything I can do legally at this point. I have signed a S agreement and transferred the house to him. He tricked me.

I agree with your Suzy Homewrecker comment but I personally found solace in hearing what her life is like now. She used to be into self-care and pedicures and posting silly selfies on FB. Now she's scrubbing my H's toilet and getting up in the middle of the night to make him lunch. I say she deserves it. Especially when he starts yelling at her, too - which he actually said he knew might happen (he brought that up).

The waking up at 4:30 came out of my questions, he didn't volunteer it. He says it's like a partnership, it's not about passion. He just wants the peace and quiet and no demands of any kind.