Pink,
Never Give Up's threads may have been purged a long time ago. She's not posted in many, many years. I'll take a look around the archives and see if I can locate any of her old threads.

As for your xh, don't expect him to be responsible and remember to give you money. Don't expect him to be involved in anything at this time. In fact, it may very well overwhelm to the point of just avoiding everything and leaving it all to you.

He will get worse before he gets better. The dark, deep depression is probably not too far away and he has to go thru it to get to the other side. You can't do anything for him, but pray. Also, he may still be going thru withdrawal of the ow.

You are slowly detaching and it does take a lot of time. Don't get discouraged. Keep moving forward.

I know you have family in for your son's graduation. Enjoy their visit and keep the focus on your kids, especially right now, your son that is graduating. This is an important milestone in his life and nothing, not even MLC, should over shadow this time for him.

Pink, you've got a lot going on and I do hope that you are carving out some time for yourself. Let go, Let God. Give it up to him and allow him to work things out for you and your family.

Take care and I'll get back to you if I can locate any of Never Give Up's threads.

Pink, I have not located Never Give Up's threads. As I mentioned before, her threads may have been purged 2-5 years ago. She was here a long time ago, i.e., back in early 2000's. I'm so sorry that they aren't here for you to read.

Last edited by job; 05/24/16 12:25 PM. Reason: Update on locating threads of NGU's
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