Sadhub, thanks for being in my corner. Boxing gloves and all! Ya it blows my mind what's going on so quickly. Put aside my personal pain, I'm very concerned about the potential physiological impact of this on D3.
I doubt there is any legal recourse for this kind of thing unless D3 is put in physical harm's way. (WW's boss is not an alcoholic or child abuser thank God).
But ultimately I will move on as well and perhaps even blend a family one day too. So I know I have to accept this eventuality. However, I would never do it so quickly and certainly not in the midst of WW, D3, and I grieving the end of the marriage.
My only hope to curtail this issue is to try to get WW to first admit to it and for the Parenting Coordinator (PC) to advise this is not good for D3 and appeal to WW to refrain.
Than I have to decide if I agree to let WW sync her alternating weekend with her OM's. She's trying to manipulate her desired weekend without admitting her ulterior motive. I'm having a hard time deciding to allow it if she continues to a) deny her affair and b) continue blending the families prematurely.
On the other hand I want to have alternating weekends as this will even us out to have D3 50/50. What do I do?
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned
