That's good that she doesn't spend marital money on anything else, but I hope you are keeping an accounting of the money as well. I'm surprised your L didn't address a financial plan to make sure the expenses are being tracked and covered against the spend.

Yes, I sympathize with your feelings. My WW is doing the same thing as well. Hopefully people are right, and that karma will come back and mete out punishment to those who stray.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016