Focus on me and my boys

[CWOL]

Yes, have you split up at least the cash portion? Or have a separation agreement in place? At least keep tabs of the cash drains so it can be assigned to her half of the assets later on, on "judgment day."
I understand your predicament perfectly, as I am in the same spot. I should have moved to the South when I had the chance and get in a state that is not no-fault! It's terrible us LBH with wives that don't work very much. We get the double whammy of being betrayed and also our life savings drained. This is where my anger and hatred comes from, how the stupid laws grant her so much reward for her wayward behavior.