Me: I just forwarded you the information on Jaden's dentist appointment tomorrow. I will probably just take the kids with me, they have a nice playroom for kids there. 05/24, 8:03 AM W: I'm going to change the other ones to a time that i can be present (thx for that) and when the kids are at jens so they don't have to sit in a dentist office for two hours. 05/24, 8:04 AM Me: are you implying that you are upset with me for making the appointments at the times i did? 05/24, 8:10 AM W: No I think it's great that you made you first aopointments for the kids. What i don't appreciate is you made them when i couldn't be available, which im sure was done purposefully. And secondly, that you literally had no idea where the cavities were, what teeth were the worse, which ones and how many they would fix first. 05/24, 8:11 AM W: Furthermore, it's ridiculous to think ruby and Rowan will sit for 2 hours during dinner time waiting 05/24, 8:17 AM Me: I made the appointments when I knew I could take him, so that they were on the calendar. I immediately called you and told you you could change them. I am happy to work with you if needed. He had 16 cavities, my apologies for not committing each to memory immediately. 05/24, 8:20 AM Me: If the appointment takes 2 hours, I will take them to get something to eat. However, to get two of mine done took about 30 minutes, so I highly doubt 4 of his will take 2 hours. 05/24, 8:20 AM W: I changed the second two appts. 05/24, 8:20 AM W: I just asked how long, and it will take between 1.5- 2 hrs. 05/24, 8:21 AM W: In the future i would suggest asking those things so you can be better prepared for the little kids. 05/24, 8:21 AM Me: If it does, we'll just go grab a bite to eat 05/24, 8:21 AM Me: plus Dave and Nicole live over there. I had plenty of things in mind. 05/24, 8:24 AM W: His next two appts ate june 3rd and 16, at 2 and 11. 05/24, 8:24 AM Me: do you need me to take him to either one of them? 05/24, 8:28 AM Me: if you do, I'd rather take him to the one at 2, so i can still get a half day at work in 05/24, 8:28 AM W: I've got it handled. 05/24, 8:29 AM Me: ok. did you sign Ruby up for Sunday school yet? I talked to a pastor about it yesterday. 05/24, 8:30 AM W: I've already talked to our pastor, and no i haven't. I have the paper work with me today. 05/24, 8:31 AM Me: I'd like to get that done, if you don't get it taken care of today let me know and I will. 05/24, 8:33 AM W: You care about faith now? Since when? 05/24, 8:37 AM Me: I've been to church now the past few weeks. met with a pastor yesterday to talk about lots of different things, including me joining the church. i'm very interested in exploring different facets of myself, including spirituality. 05/24, 8:40 AM W: It will be good for the kids to see the consistency. You've got a year and a half to show a judge what a great dad you are.....woo hoo 05/24, 8:41 AM W: I mean we both know that's what you are doing....shhh, it's a secret. 05/24, 8:46 AM Me:We prayed for you yesterday. I feel bad that you are so clouded in anger. I know and accept my part in putting you there, and I certainly know what it is like to be in that place. I pray that you will be able to let that anger go one day. 05/24, 8:53 AM W: Oh, I'm not angry. Like I've said before I'm the happiest ive ever been. Life is full of hiccups and variables. While it sadens me that you are the one causing the variables, i would have expected nothing less from you. I wish nothing but happiness and peace for you, but please don't waste your prayers on me, you've got a fun load praying for yourself. 05/24, 8:53 AM W: Big 05/24, 8:56 AM Me: you seem really happy.
Me: 38 y/o W: 38 y/o Together: 10 yrs Married: 7 yrs S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15) WBD: Sep '15 W's EA confirmed Oct'15 W Filed Dec '15 Personal awakening Mar'16