Dazed - Let me clarify - the loan would be actually applied for through his business (which is incorporated to protect us from loss, etc), so I wouldn't be responsible for it, but that was an extremely good question. The lender is one of the more reputable banks in the area, so he at least has a chance for a better interest rate. I got his clothes picked out for him, although he didn't come by until around 11pm.
And he stayed at the house. Again. Much snuggling and loving behavior...although S was again waking up all night, and H expressed some anxiety about having him alone. I asked him jokingly if he wanted me to teach S to rub his head, and he said, "no, that's your job."
Life is weird. Very, very weird. Oh well, I am just going with the flow right now. Hugs to all, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.