Destruction - 1

[speeder]

just be prolonging her time in the fantasy world?

I can see that. The fact she's had even subdued feelings for other H for over 10 years makes me want the affair to end on her own realization that he isn't anything special, rather than being denied her ever finding out for herself.

the woman you met hiking, you didn't say if you had been talking to her, but be careful, it's ok to have someone to talk to, but if you find your falling for her, back off.

I've not reached out to her since. Tempted because I enjoyed talking but right now I'm centrally focussed.

some states have a mandatory waiting period for those who have children. I don't think you should worry about the divorce process right now.

IN has just a month wait I believe and then 60-90 days, but in IL, where the BF and other H has a six month delay and then the process could take a year. Trying to not worry about what I can't control. I don't ever mention it and try to live civil when I see her.

I am considering writing 'the apology' letter. Maybe it's too soon?

Thanks for comments EDF, Coconut and dream!