Everything I say to her, is received with extreme criticism, rejection, and some form of frustrated/angry response.
betterm,
When logical-rational world meets bizarro world everything becomes chaotic. It's similar to matter coming in contact with antimatter.
Actually, I think the goal of the WS is to remain as angry as possible so that it makes it easier to leave. There's nothing you can say that can't be used against you.
You can have fun with bizarro world. I found that my wife goes through the roof if I tell her she's a black-and-white thinker. So, if I've given her good reason to be angry, then all I have to do is tell her that she's a black-and-white thinker and suddenly she's off and running in another direction and she's forgotten about the original transgression. Then, I can just watch her burn herself out whilst I have a cookie and a strawberry Fanta.