Here is the place to let it all out. Be sad. Be angry. Be attached. Be annoyed. Be YOU. This forum helps in many ways. Venting and expressing your true feelings is one important aspect.
Look up those topics mentioned above. Google excel at life. There is a lot of useful stuff there. It explains better than we could in a few LAN s. Plus you can either read or listen to the info.
At worst it distracts you. At best it will help you. Win win in my book.
Best wishes.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together