I just read through your original thread, and I have to say it really inspired me. I don't know if that inspiration is a good thing or a bad thing because I am truly fearful of any hope I put within myself. I have fought hard to save my marriage in the past year, but I've realized how I did it all wrong, and now my H tends to put some of that blame back on me. After he had his A, he told me I was not strong enough to handle it, therefore wants to leave. The way that you described your H's actions in your original thread really remind me of my own H. I just hope I will come out the other side like you did. I hope my H comes out of his fog. For now, I am trying my best to take care of me, although sometimes it is SO difficult! I was thinking about reading the book, No More Mr. Nice Guy, but maybe it's not the best time for me to read it, as it may give me some of that hope that I am so afraid of.
Thank you for posting your story. It truly was a breath of fresh air.
