Zuess, I somehow missed your posts, thanks for this kick in the pants. I know what i need to do, just need to ACT like you say. @christy I will call tomorrow to discuss. I need a coach. Thank you all.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder