DDJ just caught up on your posts. Sounds like you did exceedingly well. I've read about a guided separation that can even be administered by a minister of a church. Google it and maybe consider it.
You strength and self control during this trip is admirable btw. Thanks for sharing your days.
Good luck!
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned