Jzmill, find something to do with others, your great at doing things on your own, but find things to do with others... You might be afraid to get out and socialize, but do it afraid, you need to do it, it will make you happier, and if your happier, your H will notice (not the goal, but it will happen)..

Find something social that you like, even if you don't think you'll like it, try it... Eventually you will find something you do like, you'll find people you enjoy being around, it will work in your favor.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized