Hi Poschan,

I had as similar sich this weekend when W asked me to get my D down (after she was not listening to her) - I simply replied that I had to take care of something else at the time and walked away.


I also was against the "1st weekend" with W, she wanted to tell her just before I was going to be gone for the weekend which would make me look like the bad guy or at least not there to support her. She still spent the weekend with W as I had originally planned to be away, but D didn't know we were "separated". Fortunately she waited until a week later (more out of not wanting to tell her than anything else)


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17