WHs do come back--Piecing--

[Phoebe]

Blu, you continue to describe my H to a tee. Never went out with other guys to do "guy things," people-pleaser, displacement of blame, etc..

I can't decide if I should go find the book, or if it's just not worth bothering with at this point. I've pretty much given up on reading any of the books I bought about relationships. H is so far gone that it doesn't seem worth getting mired down in all the would have, could have, should haves. Maybe if he makes another appearance in my life I'll give it a shot. Right now, that's not feeling very likely. I wonder what he's even doing these days, or even where he is.

Tho only things I'm reading these days are my grief recovery handbook and some random fiction books. Every time I tried looking at the R books, I just felt worse. My therapist lent me one that he likes, and I read it, but all it did was remind me of exactly what I no longer have - an emotionally attached spouse.

I hope that you're having a good day, Blu.