It is important that you understand at this point in your sitch, that you focus on you. The MR can not be worked on by one person. You can not control 2 people. So focus on you is all you can do.
Read cadets homework closely. Read DB/DR and stay the course.
The goal is to become the person only a fool would leave. If you become that person, and the fool leaves, then you may attract the person that you deserve down the road. But more importantly,mic the fool leaves you will be okay.
I know that answer may not be the one you want to hear, but it is the only viable option at this point.
I read DR
That is actually awesome advice for me. When I met my WW I was a club dj. I was the man at the club and everyone wanted to come party at the club. I have since then settled down and only occasionally work weddings, no clubs.
But the fact that I was in high demand attracted WW to me. Also, I really was not interested in her back then because I really was all about djing. We were friends and then started having a lot of sex and next thing you know we are together and were virtually inseperable from that point on.
M-41 W-46 T- 17 years M- 13 yrs SS - 25 SD- 22 D 11 ILYBNILWY - 6/6/15 Status - DBing, GAL
