It is important that you understand at this point in your sitch, that you focus on you. The MR can not be worked on by one person. You can not control 2 people. So focus on you is all you can do.
Read cadets homework closely. Read DB/DR and stay the course.
The goal is to become the person only a fool would leave. If you become that person, and the fool leaves, then you may attract the person that you deserve down the road. But more importantly,mic the fool leaves you will be okay.
I know that answer may not be the one you want to hear, but it is the only viable option at this point.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
