Blueboy, Sandi says that a woman only has space in her heart for one man. This means that our WWs don't care about us anymore, they really don't. DB'ing is about us caring about ourselves.
I'm saying this because your WW is probably temp checking to make sure that she still has a place in your heart. You need to act smooth and aloof, like she's a chick chasing you down, but you're too busy eyeing the other chick in the corner.
She's says she feels she's in control because you have given her some space. Feeling in control and being in control are two different things!
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.